It is what it is…

I’ve been finding myself saying “it is what it is” lately… I’m learning to let things be! If things don’t work out the way I want them to, I’m trusting that God has a bigger and better plan in store. My days of fighting endless battles with things and people who don’t serve a higher purpose in my life are done. I’m sure some of you feel like that too. It’s so crazy because I never thought I would ever get to this point in my life! I’ve always been a “fighter” (and I still am)! Even to the point of fighting other people’s fights… and where did that get me!? nowhere!!! It made me look like a bad person in the end, it made me look like I was in the wrong even though I was fighting to help someone else out. Don’t get me wrong… I’m not giving up on fighting for the things or people that are important in my life… I’ve just learned to pick and choose the battles I fight, the people I choose to engage with, the things I choose to pay attention to! It’s been working great too might I add! I feel much more at peace with myself and I see a difference in the way things manifest in my life! I’m pretty much learning the art of letting go and letting God!

If you ever find yourself in a place where you feel you have lost control it’s time to let go! It’s time to give God control of whatever the situation may be. Tell yourself “it is what it is” and move on! Pray about it, cry about it, release it and trust that God has it all under control! Well that’s easier said than done Rae… it is! But you can do it! There is nothing too impossible for God to do! All you have to do is have faith and remember His answers to your prayers are Yes, No, Wait, or I have something better! What I’ve found out is that He ALWAYS has something better! Keep trusting and believing! He will do it for you!!!