Just a post

Over the years I’ve realized that the way I behave and some of the things I say at times can make people feel some type of way about me and honestly, I don’t care. I spent majority of my life living the way other people expect me to live and doing things just to make them feel comfortable… when in fact these people actually hated themselves and they wanted me to hate myself too. I’m not saying that I go around intentionally trying to hurt people’s feeling (I know some very insecure people that do), neither am I living my life in a way to make people feel less than what they really are… I don’t. I’ve just gotten to a place where I am comfortable being myself and not caring what anyone has to say or “feel” because at the end of the day… how a person “feels” about me is a direct reflection of who they are and “that aint got shit to do with me”. I’m not them and they’re not me.

A few tips from me…

• create your own happiness and do not be dependent on others for it

• look beyond what people say and create boundaries accordingly

• speak less listen more

• when you do speak… try having more meaningful conversations and less small talk

• don’t sugar coat your words… say what you mean and mean what you say

• stop seeking attention and work on yourself

• take responsibility for your actions… sometimes you put yourself in situations that can be avoided